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Preparation is always the key to success in mediation. But when a case has more complicated issues, coming to mediation armed with relevant caselaw can tilt the scales in your favor. Explore how meticulous preparation shaped a recent mediation involving complex issues like constructive fraud and reimbursement claims. Let our judicial experience and expertise save you time, money, and stress with your next mediation.

Discover the secrets behind hidden cryptocurrency assets in divorce cases. Explore the intricacies of tracing and addressing digital holdings, including popular cryptocurrencies like Bitcoin and Ethereum. Gain valuable insights into the distinctive characteristics of these digital assets, grasp the risks associated with asset concealment, and uncover the significance of engaging a mediator with expertise in both family law and digital currencies. Equip yourself with knowledge and assurance as you navigate the complex realm of hidden cryptocurrency assets. Access the complete article today and conquer the complexities of divorce proceedings involving digital holdings.

Discover the power of electronic service of process in Texas! This article explores how social media, email, and other technology can be used to serve legal notices in family law cases. With the court's authorization, you can now serve someone through their social media accounts or email address, making the process faster, more cost-effective, and more likely to reach the intended recipient. Learn about the requirements, evidence needed, and benefits of electronic service, as well as the potential pitfalls to avoid. Don't let the hassle of traditional service methods delay your case—embrace the digital age of service of process!

Things haven't been going well. For months, you've suspected that your spouse is planning to divorce you. In today's mail, there's a statement from a bank you don't recognize. Your spouse has become secretive with their phone and computer. Lately, your spouse has been fascinated with cryptocurrencies like Bitcoin and Ethereum. There are unexplained withdrawals or expenses from your financial accounts. You're in the dark about household finances. You're worried, and you need to protect yourself!

What is essential before you can have a successful trial? Preparation!!! You would NEVER go into a contested trial if you were unprepared.  And you should never go into a mediation unprepared. You may think that you don’t need to “prepare” for a mediation, but you do!  I’ve found that if you prepare, you stand a better chance of saving your client thousands, if not TENS of thousands of dollars.  That alone should be impetus enough to prepare for mediation. 

Did you know mediation can be ordered during an appeal? In Texas, appellate courts have the authority to require parties to mediate, even while a case is under review. Discover the ins and outs of mediation during appeals in our latest blog post. Learn about the procedures, rules, and benefits mediation offers to all parties involved.

Should I Stay or Should I Go? It may be the title of a great song, but it's a tough question you may be forced to answer in a divorce. Ultimately, the answer depends on your goals, resources, and children's needs. Separating an emotional attachment to a home is difficult, but you have to approach the question the same way you would if it were strictly a business decision. That may sound cold and calculated after you've lived in a home a long time, created many memories, and raised children there. But unfortunately, in a divorce situation, it isn't practical to continue sharing a home with your soon-to-be ex-spouse.  

Parents going through a divorce or custody dispute often ask, “What will happen to my children”? Of course, we all want what's best for our children, and hopefully, all strive to minimize the impact a divorce or custody dispute will have on the kids. But often, parents don't see eye to eye regarding what's best for the children. This article attempts to answer this critical question. Hopefully, it will help you better understand the legal process for custody disputes, whether an original suit like a divorce or a suit to modify an existing custody order.

Exciting news! We're thrilled to announce an Open House to celebrate the Grand Opening of our family law mediation practice, Armatys Millard, PLLC. We'd love for you to join us to celebrate this milestone. Mark your calendars for April 27th and stay tuned for more details. Visit our website MediationJudges.com for more information. We're looking forward to seeing you soon!

In Texas, the sad reality is that if your spouse wants a divorce, they will get it. Texas is a “no-fault” state, meaning there is no requirement that fault grounds be proven to get a divorce. The only legal ground necessary is to show the marriage has become “insupportable.” In simple terms, if one spouse wants a divorce, they will get it. This does not mean that a divorce is automatically granted after filing a divorce petition. If the parties can agree to all of the terms for a divorce, including provisions for children, if any, and division of the parties' marital assets and debts, then the divorce can be granted relatively quickly (but only after a required 60-day waiting period has expired). But suppose the spouses disagree on any of these issues. In that case, the case is considered “contested.” Any disputed issues must be resolved either by agreement (after discovery and negotiation/mediation) or by a trial.  

You've just been served with divorce papers. Either you've been expecting this day, and there is a sense of relief, or you have been entirely blindsided and are now in complete shock. Regardless, you must pull yourself together and react, and you must do so quickly.

NEW RULE! Effective February 1, 2023, TRCP Rule 21d, "Appearances at Court Proceedings," is implemented and TRCP 21(b) is amended to change the terminology from "Service of Notice of Hearing" to "Service of Notice of Court Proceeding." This order requires notices to include information for participants to participate in proceedings, including location/instructions for electronic participation, the court's contact information, and evidence submission instructions. Courts must also publish information for participants to participate in proceedings.

Are you considering mediation for your family law case? Can't decide between In-Person or Zoom mediation? We compare the pros and cons of each method in our latest blog post. In-person offers a more personal touch but Zoom offers location and scheduling flexibility. Learn more about which option may be best for your case on our website, and let us help you navigate the process.

It has become increasingly common for family law practitioners and mediators to designate a "tiebreaker" to make decisions about a child's education, health, and access to parents when the parents cannot agree. However, this practice may be unenforceable under a mediated settlement agreement if the appointed "tiebreaker" did not consent to the role. In the case of "In re A.C.P.C," a psychiatric clinic appointed as a tiebreaker in a mediated settlement agreement refused to serve as it could damage the doctor-patient relationship. This illustrates a potential problem with this type of agreement and lack of enforceability if the tiebreaker is not a party to the MSA.

Divorce is never easy. It's an emotional and frightening time, even under the best of circumstances. But there are some things you can do now, before a suit is filed, to protect yourself and relieve the anxiety and stress you are feeling. A little preparation goes a long way should divorce become necessary or imminent. Here are some tips that may be helpful. And...don't forget to mediate!

Try to get two busy lawyers' (and their clients) and a mediator's calendar to align, and you can end up in a dreaded twenty-email thread from hell. But scheduling mediation doesn't have to be a nightmare. At Armatys Millard, we let you schedule a date and time for your mediation that's convenient for you. 

Armatys Millard, PLLC, offers mediation and arbitration services for all types of family law cases, including divorce, custody, modification, and complex property disputes. Located in Historic Downtown Richmond near the Justice Center, our well-appointed offices provide a comfortable and relaxed atmosphere with high-speed wireless internet access and ample onsite parking.

It's Official! Former Family District Court Judges Walter Armatys and John Millard are pleased to announce the opening of Armatys Millard, PLLC, specializing in Mediation and Arbitration of Family Law disputes.